REVISE ESSAY-EVENING PARTIES
Human beings as we all know cannot survive alone, and of course most of us don’t like being alone. As God created Adam and then Eva, so as we should ‘complete’ our self by others peoples company. Who doesn’t like parties? Be in an evening party is one of the thousands of ways meeting new people and not only. Evening parties as well as other kind of parties have their interesting part also. Every one of us has its own reason to be, not to, or create a party. Furthermore, as good breeding demands if you like it or not you should be at the party and no one force you to stay there until the close of it, if you are a guest.
Creating an evening party is more difficult than to be there. For every hostess of a party needs a hard organization to be perfect. There are a lot of things to do such as what kind of cocktails you will offer, to choose between catering or they just cooked the food alone. They must decorate the house or the place depends of the reason of it. They should send the invitations on time to warn their guests. They must also choose what kind of music they will play at the party according to the guests; after all you cannot have a party without entertainment.
To start with, as you enter the party the hostess is waiting for you to welcome you in the place which the party is. When you enter the party the first thing you can see is a group of people standing near the buffet among entire strangers, without talking to each other just eating and drinking satisfied. They all see each other by curiosity, see drunk persons making fool of their self and this is when they feel glad and proud to be there making fun of them.
The first thing that considers most of people is the clothing part. As we finally present our selves at the party, doesn’t matter what kind of is it many people want to get the attention by everybody. Some people they present there wearing their best clothes to impress the others especially if some celebrities would be there. Showtime has begun for many people who were dying to be at the party counting the days, to show their new expensive clothes. Women looking forward to impress other women with their dresses especially if there are in an evening party.
We finally got to the party and find our self separated by a crowd of guests. People of different ages, color and gender see each other maybe for first time. These parties are the desire of many men to find a woman there so they are hoping to get there when they got the invitation. And, then later a group of men stand at a corner waiting a woman to pass next to them to go and talk to them. But, let’s be fair many women go there for picking men, and maybe for some of them this is the only reason that they had been there.
And, the reasons why we are going to a party don’t stop here. Another reason is to show respect to the host as good manners demands. And if anyone hates being there ‘needs a lot of patient and some kind of talent for acting and some freshness of speech’ (D.J.Macad online) add in his text, when you have been there; many of the guests who have been there trying to avoid each other because they are bored of such meetings. Many of them are counting the minutes until is midnight to leave from there. The secret is to be quite or better hide in a corner when the most of them are away and just relax by listening to music and hoping that the time would pass. Also many of us should remember that “we have to expose our own inability”(D.J.Macad online) by taking part in these entertainments. On the other hand if there isn’t any chance to go there you must try to refuse in the most kindly way as you can and the most important you should avoid being ridiculous of cheap excuses(D.J.Macad online).
Furthermore, most of people who organize parties they have a specific reason. Maybe they are celebrate their son’s or daughter’s wedding, birth, birthday, even a better job. Therefore, another reason for going to a different party is to have some fun. Public or private occasions if you are a fun of parties there is no doubt that you feel bored. You can see people that you may not see before, old friends, some relatives and this is a chance to get away even for a night from your daily life. There are thousands kinds of parties to go at and to create also just for change.
To conclude as we all know our life is a way of having more and more experiences, meeting new people, making different things. We must feel grateful that we have the opportunity being invited in a party because there are other people that would have been killed to be in our place and not only. Also, many of us when we received an invitation for a party we should accept immediately if we want others to come to our parties also. As it concerns to the hostess they just need confidence to create it. All in all we should be thankful of what we have in our lives, and we must do what we want to do and not let others persons to have an impact on us. The most important of all is that we should show to other people what we really are as personalities, and not try to show a fake character. After all no one love loneliness and if we want others peoples to accept us we should treat them as we like to treat us.

References:
D.J.Macdam. “Morning and Evening Parties” Google.com.2005.19 Dec 2009. http://www.djmcadam.com/parties.html