Assignment Evening Parties

Response to "Evening Parties" by Rose Macaulay

God created Adam and then Eva to show us that human beings cannot survive alone. Can anyone of us imagine his or her life without other people’s company? Even if we don’t want to admit it we cannot live alone. There thousands and thousands of ways meeting new people. Evening parties is one of them. Some people love being at a party, some others hate it being there, and others are there because they have to. For many of us, parties are ridiculous and for every one there is a unique reason. Moreover, good breeding demand to be at the party, even if you like It or not; is not necessary to stay there until the close of the evening especially when you have to go to 3 or 4 at the same evening.
Nevertheless, we finally be at an evening party which begins at about 8 o’clock and ends up about midnight, wearing our best clothes to impress the others especially when celebrities would be there. Showtime has begun for many people who were dying to be at the party counting the days, to show their new expensive clothes. And that’s when many women even men entering at the party showing off, walking and ignoring everyone else.
Also, a group of people standing near the table of foods among entire strangers, without talking to each other just eating and drinking. For them this is paradise, free food and drink even listening to the music they like. They see each other for curiosity, see drunk persons making fool of their self and this is when they feel glad and proud to be there making fun of them. They also might think we are very lucky to be there because there are worse from us.
We finally got to the party and find our self separated by a crowd of guests. People of different ages, color and gender see each other maybe for first time. ‘Hey let’s go, there will be many women’ men saying to each other when they got the invitation. Later, you see a group of men just standing there seeing each woman passes, waiting the right moment to talk to them. But, let’s be fair many women go there for picking men, and maybe for them this is the only reason that they had been there.
Lots of people go at the evening parties for respect of the host as good manners demands. You need to have patient of course if you hate parties, some talent for acting and some readiness of speech when you have been there. The secret is to be quite or better hide in a corner when the most of them are away and just relax by listening to music and hoping that the time would pass. Also many of us should remember that we have to expose our own inability by taking part in these entertainments. On the other hand if there isn’t any chance to go there you must do your best by refusing quietly as possible, avoiding being ridiculous of excuses. Furthermore, most of people who organize evening parties they have a specific reason. They may celebrate their son’s or daughter’s wedding, birth, birthday, even a better job and many of the guests who have been there trying to avoid each other because they are bored of such meetings.
Therefore, another reason for going to an evening party is to have some fun. Of course not all people like it but the truth is when you are with friends or be social, everything is cool. Public or private occasions if you are a fun of parties there is no doubt that you feel bored. You can see people that you may not see before, old friends, some relatives and this is a chance to get away even for a night from your daily life.
All in all our life is a way of having more and more experiences, meeting new people, making different things. We must feel grateful that we have the opportunity being invited in a party because there are other people that would have been killed to be in our place. We must be thankful of what we have in our lives, we must do what we want to do and not thinking others opinion and the most important of all we must be ourselves and not pretend to be a person we aren’t. After all everyone hates loneliness and if we want to be accepted in this society, we must do our best to show what we really are as a person.